When my Katie girl was a baby, I found What Katy Did. Of course I bought it not realizing the treasure it would be on many levels. In the spirit of Little Women and Anne of Greene Gables, Katy had many adventures. As each girl child in the family was able to sit through chapter books, I relived the adventures of Katy through their eyes. Oh, how I was and still am very much like Katy: bucking authority, head strong, and determined. Because of these attitudes, which I don't think are all bad, Katy's life was changed forever.
In one part of the book, Katy begins neglecting her appearance severely. Through a visit from a beloved cousin, Katy learns to let go of anger and use the talents and abilities she has to make life better. When my little Katie went to live with the angels, I was tempted to neglect my appearance and housekeeping. But the events in this little book gave me a sort of courage to carry on to the best of my ability and even to enlarge those abilities. When I became ill several years and struggled to find answers from my sick bed, Katy's lessons stuck with me.
Even though one of my favorite times of day is jammy time, when I put on my cozy wool socks, flannel gown, and alpaca sweater, it is important to get dressed every day. Even days when I am not well, I shower and dress in a simple A-line skirt, blouse or T, sweater or cardigan, and slippers. At the very least, running a brush through my hair, I don't look like a mess. Caring for my teeth so I don't have dragon breath or a cruddy smile is important. A pleasant expression is my only make-up but works wonders on the countenance. Even though I rarely see a soul except my own little family, I want to look my best for them and for my own well-being. I am worth it and so are they. I see it as an act of courtesy.
And then there is our home. Since I see it as an extension of me, I don't like to let dishes pile up and such. Even if I can't run the vacuum, I can see that it gets done. Even if I can't wash windows, I can see that it gets done. Even if I can't do the heavy work, I can see that it gets done. I learned a little secret during these years in bed. If we have good habits of order, the deep cleaning stuff never needs to be done. My home remained lovely in spite of my experiences. This seed for this attitude was planted decades ago, when I found What Katy Did.
Katy continues to teach me, as I attempt to only discuss things in a positive manner and find the silver lining.I suppose that is why I love children's classic literature so much. It's not full of silly spells and such. Instead real children experience real adventures and learn real lessons. For the most part, family and home and goodness and joy are portrayed as real attainable goals. I think I'll reread this favorite again.
Katy continues to teach me, as I attempt to only discuss things in a positive manner and find the silver lining.I suppose that is why I love children's classic literature so much. It's not full of silly spells and such. Instead real children experience real adventures and learn real lessons. For the most part, family and home and goodness and joy are portrayed as real attainable goals. I think I'll reread this favorite again.
